“Money, Money, Money, Money, Mon-ey” is a silly little song
my father is known to sing… and now it’s stuck in my head.
Today I just wanted to talk about the costs involved with
home improvement. I’m not going to get into personal details (like our finances)
but I will give some general advice.
I always wanted a ‘fixer-upper’ and by that I meant a house
that needed some updating, not a house that was falling down. Really, if I was
being more accurate, I wanted an ugly home, something that needed some work to
bring it into the current decade, but not a house that needed major issues
fixed. What we found when shopping around is that if a house is really
outdated, there is a high chance that there are other problems too. Basically,
the type of homeowner that lets their house look old also doesn’t bother to fix
the foundation. I’m sure there are houses out there where the previous owner
just had bad taste and so the house is been well maintained but needs cosmetic
work; but they aren’t easy to find (at least not in our area). Our house needed
more than cosmetic work when we bought it, hence the foundation repair and the
many issues we haven’t yet dealt with. This means we’re in a little deeper than
I imagined we’d be. We wanted to renovate the master bathroom right away, but
instead we had to spend money on foundation repair, replacing the pipes, and
new flooring for almost the whole house. While I’m glad we did this (for home
value and for my own enjoyment), it also means we don’t have that cash to spend
on the bathroom right now. It’s not the end of the world, but it does mean we
have to live with only one working shower for a while. I say all this to
explain that if you buy a ‘fixer-upper’ like ours there will probably be more
to fix than you think. So, with this in mind, here is what I’ve learned so far:
2. If you want to fix up a house (and DIY) you will need to be willing
to live in a state of construction for a while. We have been walking on
cardboard in our halls since we moved in. You have limited resources: money as
well as time and energy. It’s really tough to work on flooring during the week
because we both work long hours and if we use the saw after dark our neighbors
call the cops (true story – even at 9pm). So that leaves all the major work for
the weekends… and guess what? We don’t want to spend EVERY second of EVERY
weekend doing house stuff… we want to spend time with friends and family. So we’ll
be living in an unfinished house for a while. It doesn’t bother me that much but
it is annoying every once and a while.
3. Estimate the cost of a project before you start. I can’t
stress enough how many little things you will end up having to purchase to
complete a task. So far every project has cost more than expected. So when you
plan, don’t start unless you have some extra funds to buy things like a nail gun
when the one you barrowed doesn’t work, or extra flooring when the suggested
amount you bought is just not quite enough.
4. Discuss costs/plans with your spouse before you start
anything. I hear home improvement can start quite a few fights. I think a lot
of them probably arise from lack of communication and different expectations.
Remember you’re a team and the house belongs to both of you. LJ and I disagree
completely on what color to paint many rooms of the house. We decided that
since paint is relatively cheap, I will paint the rooms what I want and LJ will
try to live with the color for a month. If he still hates it after a month then
I’ll repaint. I’m convinced when he sees the colors I like on the walls he will
like them too…but I also know that if he hates them it wouldn’t be fair to make
him live in a house he thinks looks ugly.
5. Last, but not least, track your money. We use an online
program called Mvelopes and have for years. I love it. You create a budget and
then split your paycheck up into digital envelops. Then when you make a
purchase on your credit card you assign that purchase to an envelope and it
takes the money out of your budget. It can track all your purchases and run
reports that are really helpful. We do an end of year re-cap each December and
look at our spending habits to see if our planned budget needs any tweaks. I
think it works a lot better than the ‘just try to spend less money’ plan. I don’t
know if I’m doing a great job of explaining it, so here’s the overview page of their website:
http://www.mvelopes.com/overview/
Well, I hope that was helpful. Money isn’t always a fun
thing to talk about and it’s the number one source of arguments for couples (or
so they say), but I think with a little planning you can avoid a lot of
problems/fights. Don’t let the cost of home improvement scare you into
inaction. I think it’s very rewarding to work on your house and see the fruit
of your labor. I know it’s helped make me feel true ownership of this house in
a very short period of time. I can’t wait to be able to point out what we’ve
changed to friends that come over. Before and after pictures are the best.
on #2:
ReplyDeletespeaking from experience, even if you do take breaks and dont work on the house every weekend, theres a point where you will inevitably hit a wall. where you just mentally and physically are exhausted with working on the house. we got in way over our heads with our fixer-upper and worked way too many weekends without breaks so i hit that wall at about 6 months in and then hated the house and hated every project for about a year. but after a while, the wall lifted and the projects started being fun again.
my advice is to not let yourself get overwhelmed by the projects. be okay with taking time off, if youre starting to get frustrate with a project, walk away from it, dont let it gnaw at you. and if you do hit that wall, dont let it get to you. give it some time, and really try to find a project that sounds fun, and start with the fun one when youre ready to get back into it.
in my experience, the electrical and plumbing projects were the worst - extremely time intensive, and full of trial & error... but the demo/building/landscaping were by far the most fun for me. everyone is different, i hope you guys continue to have fun projects! =]